The first time
The first time: electrosex, anal sex, bondage, spanking!
Your pulse is racing, your hormones are exploding and the butterflies are having a wild gangbang party in your stomach: the first time. Oh yes, what an exciting experience! But the best thing is that after the first time you can have countless more "first times" that can be even more exciting and can spark completely new passions! To make these first times really hot, we have put together a few little tips and tricks packages for electrosex, anal sex, spanking and bondage ... er, bondaged ;-)
The first time: electrosex
Electrosex is not just sex with electronically operated sex toys – which can change entire bedroom worlds – but is much more exciting! Electrosex means sex with E-Stim toys:
These are dildos, geisha balls, anal plugs, penis rings or dilators that emit electrical impulses, i.e. e-stimulation, via special electrodes. This is of course only as intense as you want it to be - the e-stim toys are all very easy to use. The electrodes are perfectly and almost invisibly integrated into the gently insertable toys made of medical silicone and emit light electrical impulses to the skin and especially to the erogenous zones. To the moist vaginal walls, the intensely sensitive anus, the stiff nipples or to the particularly sensitive skin of the pulsating penis. Whether nipple clamps or anal chains: No matter where these highly specialized devices emit their fiery impulses, you can expect passionate ecstasy, multiple orgasms and never-before-experienced stimulation explosions.
The World of Electrosex Toys
If the topic fascinates you, stimulates you while reading and you can hardly wait for your first time with electrosex, then go even deeper, discover the various toys and let the ecstasy begin: Electrosex for beginners
The first time: anal sex
Whether it's man-woman, man-man or woman-woman: Anal sex can bring every recipient to unexpected climaxes. And the person who is literally behind these ecstatic feelings can also have a lot of fun. But especially the first time you have anal sex, you need to be particularly careful and gentle. Spontaneous surprise visits to the anus make little sense, often take all the fun away and can be unpleasant or even painful! First tip: Use long foreplay to get closer to this particularly sensitive erogenous zone and discover what can happen in, on and around the anus even without penetration. With intensive anilingus, virtuoso finger exercises or playing around with small electric butt plugs, the back entrance is guaranteed to be a wide-open gate to heaven.
Anal sex for the first time – how to make it perfect
Everything else that is important to make your first time having anal sex unforgettable, or which electrosex toys will make the anus your new favorite spot, you can discover in our detailed anal sex guide
The first time: spanking
Spanking is good proof that you don't necessarily have to go in the back to have fun: it's enough if you just get or give something to the back. The bottom is a very well-circulated and therefore very emotional part of the body, even in the roundest curve. It's worth trying! Spanking sounds too much like "violence" or sadomasochism to some people, but it isn't necessarily that - so it can, but it doesn't have to be. You can start your first spanking very gently and get the buttocks in a fiery mood with light blows. This will even get the whole pelvic region excited and the front will soon want more too! You can also try out objects the first time you spank: from a paddle to a fly swatter to a riding crop, everything is possible. Spanking can be so much fun because it triggers an erotic pain that is full of passion and also stimulates the pleasurable game of submission and dominance.
Want to Spank – but Afraid to Ask
Our tip: Just read this little chapter on spanking with your partner to get an initial introduction to the topic. Don't be fooled: the only cheeks that should turn red during a spanking are those on your ass! ;-)
The first time: bondage
Bondage is captivating more and more fans because of its passionate bondage techniques, the pleasurable torture and the sexual ecstasy through the game of dominance and submission. A wonderful and exciting world for everyone who needs an unforgettable "first time" in their sex and love life. The word bondage means something like servitude and thus hits the pleasurable core of the sexual practice: In bondage, one person verbally and physically dominates another, who submissively gives in to all the seductions, love games and punishments of the so-called "top" or "dom". The "bottom" or "sub" enjoys being at the mercy of others and losing control through restraints and restrictions on their own freedom of movement. Both roles can of course be played by both sexes!
Bondage for Beginners: Masochism with Moderation
The thin – but very hot – line between pleasure pain and injury pain is a challenge, especially the first time you try bondage. Here you can read up on the art of erotic bondage and then get started yourself: The perfect bondage guide
The First Time vs. The Next Time
One more general tip to finish: If you don't experience the greatest climaxes and most pleasurable moments of love the first time you try electrosex, anal sex, bondage, spanking - or whatever else you want to try - then stay relaxed. As we all know, even the "important" first time can go wrong. Our tip: Talk about what wasn't quite perfect, give each other constructive feedback and ask yourself whether this or that practice really suits you. Not everything is for everyone - but you should definitely try them ALL. It's definitely worth it. And now have fun with the electrifying bondage, gagging, penetration or spanking.
