Heat it up, don't rush it!
Sex is like a good movie – if you skip straight to the best scene, you miss all the anticipation and excitement beforehand. That's precisely what makes foreplay so important! Anyone who thinks it's just a tedious prelude to the "real thing" probably hasn't quite grasped the concept. Time to take a closer look at foreplay – with everything that goes with it!
👅 Foreplay is more than just "a little groping"
Yes, classic kissing, caressing, and licking are part of it, but foreplay begins long before that! An ambiguous message in the afternoon, a meaningful glance across the dining table, or a touch that lasts a little longer than "accidental"—all of this builds tension.
Mystim recommendation:
👉 The Magic Gloves (e-stim gloves, for use in combination with a power box ) are perfect for building anticipation with an erotic massage. Because:
🧠 The mind wants to be seduced first.
Sex begins in the mind, and that's exactly where foreplay should start. Whether with erotic fantasies, a stimulating conversation, or a steamy whisper in the ear – if you mentally arouse your partner, you've almost got their body on board. Dirty talk can work wonders here!
A boost for your imagination:
The Rocking Vibe (e-stim and vibration plug) allows you to deliberately heighten erotic expectations. Simply make a subtle hint – "I have something for later...".
Beginner or need inspiration for dirty talk? No problem, just read on here.
🐎 Slow is the new fast
Yes, we know: Sometimes you just want to go for it like a wild mustang. But the key to unforgettable sex is to slowly build the tension – like a DJ who knows exactly when the drop is coming. So: Anticipate more, act less frantically!
📏Excitation is not linear
Good foreplay isn't just a straight line from "undressed" to "ready." It's more of a game of building tension and release, of tickling, teasing, and delaying. Surprise the body—it's addictive. And if your partner is already itching to throw themselves on you, then you're doing it right!
Mystim favorites for foreplay level-up:
The Pure Vibes or Cluster Buster : Our power boxes, combined with the toys of your choice (Barry Bite, dildos & more), provide controlled impulses – from gentle twitches to clearly noticeable intensity. Precise enough to stimulate without overwhelming – perfect for that "almost... but not quite..." feeling.
🔧 Tools are not competitors – they are amplifiers
Besides hands, lips, and tongue, there are so many ways to spice up foreplay: feathers, warm oils, blindfolds, or vibrating toys—the list is endless. Our tip: E-stim toys can add a new, exciting twist to classic foreplay. Why not give them a try?
Our secret weapons for the game:
- Sizzling Simon or Sleak Freak : Precise vibrators with e-stim function for exactly the spots where an intense tingling sensation is desired – an all-in-one kick, so to speak.
- Petits JouxJoux massage candles: Sensual candles for intimate massages and extra moments of well-being.
- Barry Bite: For those who like it a little more intense – powerful e-stim impulses for the nipples, with a noticeable bite!
💣 The whole body is a playing field
Nipples, neck, inner thighs – yes, those are hot spots. But the body has so much more to offer! For example, the area behind the ears, the soles of the feet, or the little triangle between the stomach and thighs. Just try something new – and see what works best!
Trust us – this can be life-changing.
💡Don't just think with your hands
Men tend to get straight to the point, while women often prefer more touching – and both are good! But truly great foreplay uses EVERYTHING: eyes (intense gazes), voice (whispering, moaning), scent (perfume, massage oil), and of course, touch. You can always speed things up later.
⌛️ Foreplay doesn't end when sex begins
Why stop the heated foreplay as soon as things "get down to business"? Continuing to kiss, caress, talk, or playfully tickle during sex ensures that the tension doesn't drop – but only increases!
Conclusion: Foreplay is not just the "before" – it is an essential part of sex.
Foreplay isn't a chore, it's half the battle for great sex. Investing time, creativity, and passion here will reward you with more intense orgasms and more fun in bed. So don't skip it, enjoy it – and maybe even extend it with the right toys!
