A Sex Lexicon from A to Z
Nobody needs nerds in the bedroom, but you should be able to name a few basic terms, trends and practices.
That's why we have compiled important, curious and entertaining sex knowledge as well as internationally common abbreviations from A to Z. So that you know what to expect from a one-night stand or in a swingers club when you're on holiday, for example - without any "nasty" surprises. And/or so that you can also accurately suggest and ask for the right thing yourself! ;-)
Let's go:
ANILINGUS
Is the oral pleasure of the partner's anus. The many sensitive nerve endings in the butt and anus region invite very intense touches: from tenderness to penetration with the tongue - and from foreplay to anal climax. Read more about this in our anilingus blog article!
BONDAGE / BD for short, BND
Is the traditional art of immobilizing and subjugating your partner. The erotic game of power, submission and physical punishment. Bondage is a special form of BDSM and has many facets, from sensual to hard. But also a lot of potential for intense climaxes and feelings never felt before. Read here how, wherefore and how to do it properly!
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BAREBACK – because it is an important term!
It means that no condom is used during sex. You should be particularly cautious when you hear this term when it comes to one-night stands. The term bareback is often used among homosexuals and refers to unprotected anal sex.
CUNNILINGUS
Is vaginal oral sex. The range of variations, techniques and positions is long - and incredibly exciting. Cunnilingus can change the world. What is important before, during and perhaps after - or what dental dams are - is explained here!
CUM CONTROL
Delaying the male orgasm.
CBT – Attention, boys!
“Cock and ball torture”: cock and testicle torture. Dominance games in which the male genitals have to suffer (no matter how hard). Ambitious penis torturers often use electric penis cages for CBT!
DEMIVIERGE
A woman who is still “half a virgin” because she has had anal sex but not yet vaginal intercourse.
DP
Twice as nice: Double penetration means simultaneous stimulation of the vagina and anus – an intense experience for couples or adventurous solo players.
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EMERGENCY PILL
The international term for the “morning-after pill,” which can be taken up to 72 hours after unprotected vaginal sex.
FFM
It can happen to you, but not only in Frankfurt am Main! FFM stands for "Female Female Male" - that is, woman-woman-man sex. The threesome dream of all hetero men. (Opposite: see MMF)
G-SPOT
In German, of course, it's the G-spot. But men and women all over the world are searching for the G-spot. It is the ultimate erogenous zone in the vagina and is located - presumably, predominantly, according to legend and gynecologists - about five centimeters behind the vaginal entrance. More than a point, it is a very sensitive zone of the female urethra and can be touched specifically by inserting one or two fingers and gently "pressing" and stroking upwards towards the stomach with the inside of the fingertip(s).
HOMEMADE
It's not just the jam you lick off his or her nipples that can be homemade. In erotic language, homemade means homemade/homemade amateur porn.
IMPOTENCE
Is impotence (erectile dysfunction) and stands for the inability of men to get an erection. Dear men, then simply offer alternatives like cunnilingus - and dear women, if your husband can't do it, these people always can.
JB
Is “Jelly Belly”: squirting sperm on the belly.
JIZZ / JIZZEN
The international terms for sperm and ejaculation.
K-9
Stands for “canine,” which translates to dog-like sex games. From the doggy style position to submissive BDSM role play.
LADY WOOD
Is the "female erection" or "female boner", which means a swelling of the vulva due to sexual stimulation. In professional circles it is also called "Brad Pitt swelling".
MMF
It's a "male male female" threesome: that is, with two men and one woman. Sometimes you need two guys to get a lot of girl power!
NSFW
Stands for "Not Safe For Work" when sending porn or "homemade" videos and pictures. If "NSFW" is in the subject or message, then either don't watch it or turn the sound down or watch it during a break.
ONS
Internationally stands for “one-night stand”.
OWO
Stands for “Oral WithoutOut”: oral sex WITHOUT a condom.
PEGGING
Anal penetration with a strap-on dildo.
P4P
It’s called “pay for play” and means that you have to pay for sex – i.e. prostitution.
QUEEF
Also known as “vaginal wind” and refers to the sound or situation when air flows in or out of the vagina during penetration (with the penis).
RIMMING
Part of cunilingus: penetrating the anus with the tongue.
SLEEP GASM
A wet dream that culminates in an orgasm. Awesome.
SHRIMPING
A fetish that involves kissing, licking and sucking toes.
SPANKING
The “spanking”. Tender, hard, clothed, naked, during foreplay, during BDSM, during sex, as a compliment for partners, during climax... when is it not hot!?!
SOMF
“Sit On My Face”: the invitation/request for oral sex and the special position/practice known as “face-sitting”: Both of them bend next to the head of the lying “licker” and sit with more or less pressure on his/her face.
SQUIRTING / SQUIRTING / short: ST
Female ejaculation: the excited, rapid discharge (squirting) of vaginal fluid during or after climax. If HE wants things to really get going for HER, light electricity should be used: vaginal pampering with electric toys for tingling electric shocks.
TT
“Tit torture” is the working on, the “torture” of the breasts in different hard ways. As a biting foreplay, as support during sex or as a punishing BDSM practice with aids such as nipple clamps. TOSSING The desire for sex with an unknown person.
UNCUT
Stands for "uncircumcised penis".
UNIFORM FETISHISM
Whether you're a firefighter, captain, flight attendant or nurse: uniforms are sexy. And for some, so sexy that they have to stay on during sex.
VODKA COCK
Flaccid penis due to excessive alcohol consumption.
WINGMAN / WINGWOMAN
Man or woman, a friend or girlfriend who helps you pick up and pick up a person.
WANKING
Is "masturbating". If you're a man who likes to touch yourself, you can discover the heaven of wanking here: with incredibly hot masturbators or the extremely realistic Opus E models that will electrify you and pulsate you to climaxes.
W/E – mostly: w/e
Means "well-endowed" and reveals that he or she is well-endowed. Large penis or large breasts. Useful if you meet online or via chat.
XXX
And XOXO stands for kisses and smooching in text messages. This can be a nice gesture between friends, but it can also be erotic texting - also known as "sexting". Then it belongs to the exciting topic of "dirty talk".
YUM-YUM
Oral caresses and satisfaction of the penis or vagina.
ZOO-STYLE
It's "dirty," "wild," and like animals do. Inside, outside, everywhere.
And here are some more exciting and important number codes:
3F / 3F-DATE
"Film Food Fucking" date: a date for film, food and sex
69 / "Sixty-nine"
Sex position in which both partners pleasure each other orally at the same time – each with the head near the genitals.
71 / Seventy-one
69 position plus one finger in each ass!
E6
Electrosex, or electrostimulation. The best of the best for everyone and for all situations and preferences is available here!!
